Relationships are hard enough without taking tips from all the unrealistic romantic comedies on http://www.DirectStarTV.com/ satellite. If you want yours to work follow our three simple rules for staying sane while planning your wedding.

Remember the Purpose: Despite all the tulle and invitations and drama, don’t forget that the whole point of the day is that you and your beloved are joining in holy matrimony. If you lose sight of that you may lose sight of each other.

Don’t Test: It’s tempting to use the wedding planning stress as a time to test your partner’s love for you but everyone’s stretched to the limits and shouldn’t be pushed any farther. Clearly they already love you or you wouldn’t be getting married, no?

Keep the Finances in Check: The number one issue couples argue about is money so don’t let the wedding be the start. If you can’t afford the wedding of your dreams pare it down and remember that no one day is worth going into debt over. Start off your new life together on solid financial ground and you’ll have a leg up.